Six Surprise Sexy Spots
When you and your guy get frisky, it makes sense to reach for some
pretty obvious body parts. But those tried-and-true areas of your
anatomy
aren't the only places that can get you hot and bothered. Try playing with
these six lesser-known zones—and have fun looking for
a few unique new
pleasure points of your own, too.
Sacrum (on you)
Why it's hot: The vertebrae in the small of your back (right above your
buttocks) contain sacral nerves, which shoot straight to your genitals,
say Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson, coauthors of The Essence of
Tantric Sexuality . In fact, electric stimulation of this nerve will
trigger an orgasm in 91 percent of women, according to a recent study.
Try this: Lie on your stomach and have your partner press on the sacrum
with his palm, or give it a gentle karate chop-style massage. This
will
stimulate the sacral nerves and build heat in the genitals, says Michael Gach, Ph.D., founder of the Acupressure Institute
(acupressure.com).
Nipples (on him)
Why it's hot: Your own nipples probably get plenty of action. But your
guy's can be very hot spots, too: They contain just as many nerve
endings
as yours do.
Try this: Start off by lightly stroking the area with your fingertips.
If that gets rave reviews, try upping the intensity with a gentle pinch or
playful tug.
Big toe (on you)
Why it's hot: Ever notice how your toes twitch when you hit a high note
(hence the term "toe-curling orgasm")? That's because there's a
direct
neurological link between your privates and your little piggies—especially
the biggie. What's more, you can work this reflex in the
other direction:
"Stimulating the big toe can actually trigger an orgasm in some women,"
says Johnson.
Try this: Of course, your guy can take your toes into his mouth—a
classic bedroom move. Or, have him gently pinch the sides of your big
toe
and roll it between his fingers, Gach suggests; this activates reflexology
pathways connected to your genitals.
Soles of the feet (on him)
Why it's hot: Women aren't the only ones packing pleasure potential in
their feet—men do, too. According to Michaels and Johnson, the
soles are
the masculine sweet spot.
Try this: Aim for an acupressure point on the bottom of his foot, about
one-third of the way down from the third toe. "This is nicknamed the
Bubbling Spring since pressing here and holding for a few seconds can
cause energy to 'bubble up' the legs to the genitals," explains Gach.
Or
try lightly brushing the soles of his feet.
Navel (on you)
Why it's hot: Your navel and your clitoris have a lot in common: In the
womb, these two regions grow from the same tissue, linking them
neurologically in adulthood. "In fact," says Johnson, "if you stick your
finger in your belly button, you may sense it in your genitals."
Try this: Your sweetie can use his tongue or fingers to delve into this
indentation. If that's too intense, ask him to caress or kiss his way two
to three inches southward. He'll hit three acupressure points, called the
Sea of Energy, which are linked to sexual pleasure as well as to
fertility, says Gach.
Courtesy of http://www.webmd.com
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